Not About Dating.....But Fun!

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Free Dating Profile From eHarmony

Here's one for all you single folks, looking for love. eHarmony is one of the top online dating networks out there! Give them a shot today! They are offering a free profile today!




Before you know it, you'll be in someone's arms, and on your way to a whole new life.

Senior Dating Online

Good dating news for the senior crowd, looking to date someone.

More and more older women & men over 50 are finding that dating services available via the web are adding a new dimension to their life and providing a really excellent way of meeting new friends or potential partners. Online access senior dating services now aim to cater for both the older man & the older woman seeking companionship. Offering; personal assistance, speed, informality and many extra facilities.

So hit the online dating sites and have some fun!

Dating ideas for all ages and places

Here is a list of great dating ideas! They can be first dates or second, or the 1000th date! It doesn't matter. Just try them and have some fun!

Check out your local paper for events!
See a play
Rent a movie
Night picnic and looking at the stars
Do community service together
A movie
A nice dinner
Bowling
Roller skating
Ice skating
Miniature golf
Amusement parks
Water parks
Concerts
Billiards
Hiking and nature walks
Visit local parks, state, or national
Bike riding
Roller blading
Tennis
Horse back riding
Skiing
Water skiing
Museums
The Zoo
Factory tour
Public gardens
Habitat for humanity - Work one day building a house with habitat for humanity.
Charity walks/runs/bike rides
Volunteer activities
Shopping together
Ball game
Go to church together
Poetry reading, book reading
Boat ride
Take photographs together
Flea market

Dates like these can be enjoyed by all ages, in all places around the world! I bet you didn't think dating was a universal sport, did you? But people everywhere are looking for someone to spend quality time with, not just in your neck of the woods.

Maybe it's time to take a trip to somewhere new. You never know who you will meet!

Some great dating movies to rent

Here are some recommended romantic dating movies you can rent, and use to set the perfect romantic mood! Use with caution: they may lead to unexpected delight!

Return to Me
Message In a Bottle
English Patient
Ladyhawke
A Knight's Tale
Pretty Woman
Moonstruck
Far and Away
Love Story
City of Angels
The Cutting Edge
Somewhere in Time
Regarding Henry
Ghost
Untamed Heart
A Walk to Remember
You've Got Mail
Tortilla Soup
Witness
Annie Hall
The American President
The Princess Bride
Untamed Heart
Ever After
The African Queen
What Dreams May Come
Jerry McGuire
A Walk in the Clouds
Barefoot in the Park
I Don't Buy Kisses Anymore
Kate & Leopold
Pearl Harbor
The Wedding Planner
Serendipity
An Affair to Remember
Sleepless in Seattle
When Harry Met Sally

So hit the online video rental program of your choice and put some romance into your next date.

eHarmony makes dating, and meeting someone soooo easy!

You have all seen the eHarmony commercial with the happy couples who fell in love on their first date, and lived happily ever after, right?

Well I just spoke to a family member who was using eHarmony recently, and guess what? She's getting married! And I thought it was all a bunch of bunk.

Apparently she had tried a few other sites, with some good results, but she received the best matches from eHarmony. Not to say that other sites aren't just as good,(see my site), but she hit the jackpot with eHarmony. It will be a Vegas wedding for the two of them and I'm going! Don't ask for details from the trip. What happens in Vegas stays in Vegas, baby!!

So here's a coupon for eHarmony. Use it now, and find your bliss!

A wedding invitation is not necessary, but send some photos!

Who needs men, when you can stay home for a more private date.

Dating got you down? Love life a little slow? No problem. I have the answer for you. Spend a quiet evening at home with a new friend.

Did you know that 29% of women ages 18-60 own personal adult toys? Sorry guys, it is true. You CAN be replaced! LOL

There are many products available to start a collection or add to your current one. My personal favorite is this fellow.
Compact, lightweight and discreet. Everything a modern women needs in a personal adult toy.

So don't spend another night alone and frustrated, because your man, or men weren't available to spend some quality time with you. Just break out your favorite "friend" and enjoy yourself!

Private dates can be fun too!

Spicing up your dating or relationship with Exotic Dancing.

Here's a helpful little item, for those of you who are interested. An instructional course on Exotic Dancing.

I thought that it was quite unique, and for the right person, could be used to keep things lively, whether it be for dating, or for keeping you relationship steamy.

The courses, on video, are tasteful and I wouldn't think anyone would be offended.

Of course, it isn't only for the dating or long term relationship folks. Think about all you married friends who could benefit from something like this. It gives them the benefit of exercise, and spicing up their marriage.

What a great gift idea!

A few more excuses why you can't go out on that date

Just in case you need a few more reasons why dating is out for you, at the given moment:

1. I feel a song coming on.
2. I'm trying to be less popular.
3. My bathroom tiles need grouting.
4. I have to bleach my hare.
5. I'm waiting to see if I'm already a winner.
6. I'm writing a love letter to Richard Simmons.
7. You know how we psychos are.
8. My favorite commercial is on TV.
9. I have to study for a blood test.
10. I'm going to be old someday.

Number 4 might leave them thinking you will be a blonde, the next time they see you. If that is the case, they are less intelligent than you originally thought.

Need a reason you can't go out on that date?

Here are 10 reasons you can use to let someone down gently, who has just asked you out on a date:

1.I have to floss my cat.
2. I've dedicated my life to linguini.
3. I want to spend more time with my blender.
4. The President said he might drop in.
5. The man on television told me to say tuned.
6. I've been scheduled for a karma transplant.
7. I'm staying home to work on my cottage cheese sculpture.
8. It's my parakeet's bowling night.
9. It wouldn't be fair to the other Beautiful People.
10. I'm building a pig from a kit.

Of course, if you use one of these, you may not get asked out for a date by this person ever again. But I think that is the point.

Some Internet dating statistics

Here's some interesting stats that shows just what is going on in the Internet dating world:

Up to 30% of American singles have used matchmaking sites.
Women, on average, receive over 5 emails daily.
Around 40% of men say they don’t feel confident meeting women the first time.
The overall cost of personal sites has dropped over the last 2 years.
On the first date most women think men aren’t truthful.
Generally, guys prefer women younger than themselves.
Most people would prefer to be in a relationship than not.
Over a third of women don’t like guys being clingy.
Most girls say personality is much more important than looks.
Men, on average, receive only 1 or 2 emails daily.
60% of women prefer men older than themselves.

What does it all mean? Technology is changing the way we live, work and now certainly date!

How to tell if he likes you enough to ask you out on a date...especially if he is shy.

Shy Guys

They can be great dating partners, but........

These guys are tough to crack sometimes...

He'll look at you, until you turn around, then boom, he's looking the other way. You may 'feel' like he's watching you - but he's hard to catch at it

He may do something physical - like grab you in a play way, poke you, play with your hair...(Remember when you were really young and the guy you liked punched you or tackled you?)

He may be working really hard to pay attention to you, but doesn't quite know how...

He may ask a friend of yours about you - he'll say it's just for "friend of mine" that wants to know about you.

He talks to everybody else - but when you're around he turns silent, or chokes up. You seem to accidentally bump into him a lot of different places.

He may not say a word to you, but he shows up in the same line, at the same movie, etc.

He'll give you a little smile from across the room, but if you get near, he won't look up.

Basically - the BIG clue is that his behavior changes when you're around (compared to when he's around his buds or other girls).

DEAD Giveaway - when you talk to him he turns red. (Bingo - you can pack that puppy up and take him home...)

Or just ask HIM out for a date. He may pass out, but it might be worth the risk......

Dating requires a little luck and a bit of passion

So you can't seem to "get the girl" any more. It was easy when you were younger, and now that you are a bit more "mature", your luck seems to be running out. Well dating isn't all about luck. OK, maybe it really is.

Getting a girl is all about creating a state, a desire, a passion.This is something that she has no control over. It is a state in her which takes all control. Once it's in her she can not be unhappy, she can not be upset, or think in a different way. It is how you think, that is how she thinks, because you have an overwhelming desire for what you want. It's just like drugs, it's just like video games, the ones that are addictive like crazy, it's like a lifestyle that a person just can never change; it's what they are.

So think about how you can make yourself as addictive as one of the hot video games out there. Maybe God of War, or something like that. Once you do, your date book should fill up and your dating life will go up tenfold.

It isn't that hard. Just think about what your strong points are, and build on them. Everyone has them. Even if they are silly. Take them out with you and flaunt them, the next time you go out clubbing or bar hopping, and watch the sparks fly.

In case you didn't know.....women love a confident man! Not cocky. Just confident. With your new found strength, you will attract women like moths to a flame. Just be careful not to burn any of them. You know what they say about a woman scorched....or is that scorned. :)

Your friends will wonder how you got all these new dates with all the hotties. Don't tell them! At least not for a while........

Dating requires a little luck and a bit of passion

So you can't seem to "get the girl" any more. It was easy when you were younger, and now that you are a bit more "mature", your luck seems to be runnig out. Well dating isn't all about luck. OK, maybe it really is. But here are a few things to think about, the next time you are out clubbing or bar hopping, and you see the next mother of your children.

Getting a girl is all about creating a state a desire a passion. This is something that she has no control over. It is a state in her which takes all control. Once it's in her she can not be unhappy she can not be upset or think in a different way. It is how you think that is how she thinks because you have overwhelming desire for what you want. It's just like drugs, it's just like video games the ones that are addictive like crazy, it's like a lifestyle that a person just can never change; it's what they are.

To create this state in her, this state has to be what you are all about, meaning it has to be what it is that is your passion. It's just something that you are passionate about it's just something that you do. It's like going out with friends that you can never give up. It's something that there is nothing that could ever be done about it. And to create this state you can't just try to feel it because your mind doesn't work like a light switch. It must be emulated and generated by behaviors and actions which are physical representations that turn into manifested reality. It's something you have to do no matter what.

To do this you can't just try and hope that the vibe will be right. You do everything you can that will give you control and you know is right. And to do that you need specific behaviors and experiences and beliefs which will turn into actions and habits. It's because habits are not conscious that you use specific, conscious action. If you have subliminal intuition as an intuitive insight, use it. But if you don't have a premonitions, and different reflexes interfere with guidelines, don't budge, but maintain with the guidelines until they become internalized and the correct instinct immerge on their own. Otherwise, don't play with instincts, stick to the guidelines until they become so clear that you could fly through it.

Try these tips and your date book should fill up and your dating life will go up tenfold.

10 Reasons you do not date

Here is a list of 10 reasons why you may not be dating:

1. There aren’t any good men (or women) out there—all the good ones are taken.
2. I can’t be too choosy. I have to take what I can get or I’ll be alone.
3. There is no such thing as an “ideal partner” or “true love.”
4. I’ll never find the one I want. I’m too ____(old, fat, unsuccessful, set in my ways, unattractive, busy, burdened with responsibilities, full of problems, etc.)
5. No one stays in love. It wears off.
6. Men can’t be trusted. (Women can’t be trusted.)
7. No one wants someone over the age of ____ (30, 40, 50, 60, etc.)
8. Loving someone just leads to pain.
9. When they really know me, they’ll leave me.
10. I always hurt the one I love.

Now look at them again. Are these really good reasons to keep to yourself? Never knowing if your perfect match is sitting right next to you at the movies, or in line at the grocery store.

Stop letting these items keep you from dating and enjoying all that love, and life, have to offer you!

Long distance dating: is it for you?

Some say it’s not worth it, some say distance makes the heart grow fonder. What do I think? Well, I think if you’re dating the right person, it really doesn’t matter where you are. Think about the millions of people who use online dating websites, correspond through emails and instant messengers, and later fall in love and get married.

In any relationship, long distance or not, it is the ability for couples to communicate well, that makes the relationship work. Love surpasses all. Think about the men and women that have been separated during war time, they still remain in love. They communicated through mail.
Online dating provides lovers with communication via the internet and email. This method is even better, because mail is sent right away and mail is received right away. Some online dating sites offer real time messaging with visuals, in other words, you can see who you’re talking to as if the person was right in front of you.

Wow! So is there really such a thing as long distance dating now that online dating is around? I mean, mail is sent and received right away, so that’s not really considered long distance. Long distance dating now not the long distance dating I used to know.

Some inexpensive dating ideas

Local Thrift Shop Date: Plan a date someplace where there are a lot of people. Before going, head down to the local thrift shop together. Once there, specify a small amount of money to purchase clothing or accessories for the other and both head off in different directions. The goal is to find items the other has to wear for the rest of the day/evening within the price specified. The entertainment is seeing the reaction from all the people who see your new outfit as you wander the crowded area.

Follow Them Date: As the two of you meet, you look around and pick somebody out on the street. The date is to follow that person where ever he or she goes. Once that person has stopped or you can no longer follow them, pick another person to follow. Your bound to have loads of laughs as you attempt to stay with your designated guide.

Scavenger Hunt Date: When your date arrives, have him or her make a list of what he or she considers to be 20 unusual items. Once the list is made, the date will be to try and find as many of those items as possible.

Truth Or Dare Date: Pick some spots in your area to visit, but play truth or dare along the way. It doesn't really matter where you go since the entertainment is doing the various dares that the other gives in addition to telling all the truths.

Dating takes a backseat to the President and his lunacy

FORGIVE THE PERSONAL POLITICAL VIEW TO FOLLOW, BUT I FIRMLY BELIEVE THAT THIS IS A CRITICAL ISSUE FOR ALL AMERICANS:

For those of you who are not aware of the recent topic of giving the security to some of the Unites States largest ports to the UAE, or UNITED ARAB EMIRATES, read on. If you already know about this, then you are already upset, I am sure.

Seems like our great President, MONKEY BOY BUSH!, wants to hand over the security to several of our largest ports, like Miami, New Orleans, and Port Newark, to those friendly terrorist backing, haters of Americans, when it fits their agenda, camel riding fuckers across the globe.

I don't know about you, but it sounds like a piss poor idea to me. Is Mr. Pres so desperate to line his already fat pockets with more of that blood stained cash?

Let me know what you think about this folks, because I'm pretty sure this shit will come back to haunt us. Can you say "Twin Towers"?

Next time you have the chance to vote for a President, take a real good look at the candidates, will ya? Because someone screwed up the last two times around!

Just my 2 cents.......

Alyssa's recommended online dating websites

Here are a few of my recommended online dating websites. While I cannot say I prefer one over another, I can say they all offer a good variety of features and options. Go ahead and give them a test run. You may find one to be your favorite. Of course, don't overlook my favorite site.

lavalife.com

Gay.com

FriendFinder.com

Gay.date.com

So hurry up and go online, and find that perfect someone to date, right now!

Dating and SEX

Pretty cut and dry here. Some common sense things to consider when out on a first date or subsequent dates:

Never sleep with someone on the first date
Do not chat about sex on the first few dates, especially if you are a man. Retain your enigma factor
Never ever speak about sex with your ex when dating
Never admit to how many people you have slept with
Date people you are physically attracted to as a start
Sex is generally important, let's not pretend otherwise
Being sexy is different to being available
Kissing does not mean sex
Have sex the first time where you are most comfortable
Remember that if you want to leave it is best not to sleep with your partner at your apartment
Always practise safe sex, there is no excuse
Good sex is a good start, bad sex can get better though
Avoid people who are selfish in their sexual needs unless you share them
Never do anything you are not comfortable with
Never ever be rushed into sex when dating

First date ideas

Here's a few first date ideas that can help make things go smoother for both of you. Since first dates can be exciting and stressful at the same time, you want to try to keep things as relaxeed as possible. Remember, dating is meant to be fun, and by following a few simple rules, you can make sure it always is.

Pick an activity that you enjoy
A first date should be something that you like to do. Do not pick something you hate just because you think your partner will enjoy it.

Pick an activity that you can easily afford
Don't try to snow somebody on the first date by spending gobs of money. The dangers of throwing money around are that it makes you look cheap later, when you scale back your spending to accomodate your budget, and you never know whether your date likes you or your wallet.

Pick An Activity That Doesn't Involve A Lot Of Alcohol
You might say the wrong think if consume too much of alcohol.

Leave Time to Get to Know Each Other
A date that is chock full of activity keeps you busy, but if the purpose is a chance to get to know one another, some quiet time is a great idea. Without a bunch of distracting noise, activity, or an audience, you can talk to and get a sense of one another.

Dating back in the day....

Pappy sees Elmer walking with a lantern and asks, "Where ya going boy?"The son smiled and replied, "I'm a-going courting Peggy-Sue."The Father said, "When I went a-courtin', I didn't need me no dang lantern.""Sure Pa, I know." the boy said. "And look what you got !"